when u’re in a relationship, the dopest shit is when yall both go hard af for each other. like real live bestfriends. cant nobody fuck w dat
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when u’re in a relationship, the dopest shit is when yall both go hard af for each other. like real live bestfriends. cant nobody fuck w dat
purity-preaching assholes: remember, when you sleep with someone you’re sleeping with everyone they’ve ever slept with!
poly people: bitch I’m trying
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whatever it is you need good luck for, i wish you good luck. tests, job, home life, social life, mental health, physical health, love life. you name it. this post is wishing you good luck on all of that.
don’t make other people’s decisions for them. apply for the job you don’t think you’ll get. let them decide if you have the skills they’re looking for. tell that person you like them even though you think they’re out of your league. let them decide if they like you. stop trying to predict and control everything. bring what you have to the table. let the rest go.
Those of you that are still here, despite everything that life is testing you with, I’m so glad that you’re choosing to live. You deserve so much and you don’t need to endure any more pain to prove your worth. Please go after what makes you feel alive and what reminds you of your growth. Please pursue your peace. Please expand beyond your own limitations, whatever you’re ready for. In this moment, you are not gone. You still exist and you still have opportunities to change things or be changed by things. Please welcome these opportunities for learning + connection + healing + strength. This is not a transaction, you shouldn’t have to pay a recurring price for joy. Know that people appreciate your presence in this world. Keep fighting towards what love + light means for you. May that pursuit lead you out from the dark and may you recognize your power, once again 💛
Hi bebe 💍,
I definitely have displayed toxic behaviors in my past. A lot of it was based on insecurity, fear from past trauma and just feeling sensitive at times. I respect my emotions so I don’t mean that in a cynical way, but in an honest way. Would I call myself a toxic person, in general? Nahh, because from the time I was born till now, my life has been geared towards love. That doesn’t excuse or invalidate behaviors and I’m very aware of that. I just think it’s important to have that distinction, because a lot us may have gone through things and will beat ourselves up for the rest of our life thinking that we’re horrible and undeserving. That may not be the case at all and with some more accountability, awareness, forgiveness of self (and if you’re lucky, from others) and discipline, we can really change our lives around. Especially if you’ve been or are displaying those toxic behaviors, I think it’s important to dedicate your time to loving yourself and others in a way that’s progressive. Also, be patient and understand that forgiveness is not an expectation and it really is a decision. Even if others can’t, it’s important to forgive yourself. Without that, evolution will be like climbing Mount Everest, so patience is KEY. The full capacity of who I am now, is a world away from who I was a year ago. Keep love in your heart, be responsible as it pertains to your actions + consequences, and embrace patience.
Hope this helps!
